"Very often we are inattentive in prayer, our heart is not in it, and our prayer is not upheld by our life.'
"The first thing, then, is really to find words of prayer that are worthy of you and worthy of God. I say, 'worthy of you and worthy of God' because if they are good enough for you, then God can accept them, but if they are not good enough for you, leave God alone."
Anthony Bloom in Beginning to Pray
IN this second statement about the last phrase I think it reflects one's feelings at times - we think that our prayer is not good enough so feel God would not care or would not want to listen - so we do not validate it. Think of it this way - how would you talk to your best friend about what you want to pray about? And then realize that God really is the best friend you or I can have.
June